Top 30 Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

There are two reasons to read this article and ask romantic questions to your partner. First, if you are in a new relationship and trying to live it to the fullest, you need to try some tactics. Doing some fun and romantic activities to know each other better is the beautiful way of creating beautiful memories.

Second, if you have been together for a while, the excitement about getting to know each other better partly fades away. Because then you feel like you already know each and everything about your boyfriend. But the truth is that there are so many things that they don’t know about, and ask each other questions is an essential part of every beautiful bond. 

The butterflies in your stomach during the initial days of your relationship and getting to know each other. It is said to be the best phase of your relationship but if you want to keep that spark going in your relationship, then try having a little cute question-answer session with your boyfriend so that you both can enjoy your date.

Romantic Questions to Ask your Boyfriend

Try asking some intimate questions to your boyfriend. By the term ‘intimidate,’ we don’t only mean ‘those bedroom conversations’ but asking your boyfriend questions that make him feel you are interested in him, his childhood memories, his likes, and dislikes. Because the most common mistake we all make is to talk and not listen, listening is also an art. So on your dates, you can ask him some romantic questions about you and your relationship, too, if you are not that good at initiating conversations and cannot choose words correctly. Then we are here to help you with some romantic questions which you can ask your partner.

1. Which movie reminds you of us?

If you people love watching movies and that too together, this question will make him think about all the happy times and the film you watched together. 

2. What is your guilty pleasure?

Ask him this question and get to know what he never confessed. It can be quite fun to know these things.

3. What is your dream job?

He is going to love this question that is too personal. It will tell you about his dreams and desires what he wants to accomplish in the future. Listening to his answer while looking at his eyes, this moment he will cherish forever.

4. Do you like kissing or hugging more?

These questions make the situation romantic, and you will know if he is more of a kissing person or loves to hug.

5. What is your favorite activity that we do together?

You might be doing leisure activities together like watching movies, singing or dancing together, gardening together. Ask what your boyfriend likes the most so that you can figure out his favorite activity.

6. What is your happiest childhood memory?

Childhood memories bring happiness to you. When your partner will share his childhood memories with sparkly eyes, can you imagine how romantic that would be?

7. What is your ideal date?

You may have different ideas about having a perfect date. You can ask him this question and sort out how you can choose new date ideas.

8. Do you believe in love at first sight?

You both may not have similar opinions regarding so many things, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t destined to be together. But asking such questions can make your relationship more vital than ever.

9. Do I show up in your dreams or fantasies?

If you feel you are short of topics to discuss, then try asking this question. It is super fun.

10. Do you believe in soulmates?

Ask him and listen to his answers carefully.

11. Are you a dog or a cat person?

This preference tells you a lot about a person – his choices, way of thinking, etc. 

12. What was your first impression of me when we first met?

This question can be super romantic as how you guys met the first time. What impressions did you leave off each other etc., can be the start topic to have long conversations.

13. What values do you think are most important in a relationship?

These questions are intriguing. You will start by asking one value then ultimately discussing essential things of your life.

14. What is one similarity between us that you love?

There are always some things similar in you and your partner, and which make you different. Try finding out the same. 

15. What is your idea of a perfect wedding?

Don’t ask if you want to get married or when you wish to get married. Instead, start by asking this question to tell you what your partner thinks of the idea of having a beautiful wedding.

16. What is the best thing about our relationship?

You will love the answer given by your boyfriend, that we are sure. Also, share what you love the most in your relationship to see his reactions.

17. If you caught another guy flirting with me, what would you say or do?

We girls love when our partners get jealous of our other friends. Don’t we? So ask him what will be his reaction if a guy starts flirting with you. In this way, you can know how possessive your boyfriend is or mature enough to handle such situations in the future.

18. Where would you want to go on vacation with me and why?

We all have our favorite vacation places. Ask where your partner wants to go with you and why that particular place to know exciting answers.

19. Do you have a celebrity crush?

Ask this question, share yours, and have little fun.

20. Are we both lovers or best friends?

As it said that those relationships which start with being friends are the best of all. Even if you weren’t friends before, you guys now know each other well. Ask him if he feels safe to share something with you as a friend.

21. What are your main relationship goals?

Stuff like relationship goals is not bizarre. Ask what your boyfriend thinks of the same.

22. Have you ever been afraid of your own emotions?

Women tend to share their feelings more as compared to men. They try to take care of your emotions. So this is the right time to know when he feels vulnerable.

23. Describe yourself in three words.

You can be surprised to know what you think of him is not exactly how he describes himself.

24. What is the best present you ever received?

Just find out what your partner loves in gifts. Next time, make sure to try surprising him with the same kind of gifts; he will love it.

25. What is your idea of a perfect Sunday?

Some people love spending their holiday while some may love outings. Ask your partner what is his perfect idea of the expenditure the Sunday so that you may figure out what you are going to do on alternate Sunday’s

26. When you are having a bad day, what makes you feel better?

By asking this question, you will know what can make him feel better after having a bad day. Also, he will feel happy after knowing that you care about him.

27. What is the most important quality you look for in a partner?

Don’t try to change after getting his answer, but it will let you know what he thinks of an ideal situation.

28. What is that one thing you want to change about me?

It is not a trick question to test your boyfriend. It is actually to know what annoys him, or you can further work on it. Don’t spoil this romantic question by being annoyed.

29. What is your darkest secret?

It is quite an interesting question. You don’t know what answer you can get. But also keep his darkest secret as a secret. You can be soon his best friend.

30. What is your favorite sexual fantasy?

Spice up your relationship a little bit. Ask about your partners’ sexual fantasies. It would help break the ice around the topic and make them feel more comfortable around you. Please give them the space to express themselves. Listen to them. Share your thoughts.


If you are out of ideas as to what to do on your dates if you meet more often, then this activity of conducting a questionnaire is super fun. This activity not only will make you guys happier or enthusiastic, but also this act of communicating is incredibly romantic. Try doing this with your boyfriend, and we bet he will also frame some questions for you when you meet on your next date. Effective communication always strengthens a relationship. So stop searching and scrolling to find out the exciting ways to add pleasure to your relationship.

By Saakshi Pathak

Saakshi Pathak aka Iska Review girl is a blogger, script writer, book reviewer, youtuber and a show host. Her writings are often witty and layered with sarcastic comments. She makes videos on social issues and has also been working with various media houses as a freelance content creator. She loves collecting and wearing jhumkas. She's an avid book reader. She is currently based in Chandigarh and is working as a freelancer.

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